Cheating doesn't just ‘happen', amirite?

I mean, cheaters obviously invent excuses but you can be sure that they would cry a lot if they were the ones being cheated on, they wouldn't try to justify.

by Necessary-Stable4242 1 week ago

I don't think so, they're guiltless sociopaths.

by TellKey7651 1 week ago

we evolved pair bonding for a reason lol

by Anonymous 1 week ago

Polygamy was common up until 100 years ago and still common in some cultures today.

by Anonymous 1 week ago

How is this unpopular?

by ed56 1 week ago

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

by Adrianaconnelly 1 week ago

What you're saying is unequivocally true.

by Adorable_Win_9361 1 week ago

That's because people avoid accountability at almost all costs these days.

by Anonymous 1 week ago

This sound like an opinion from someone who has never been in the real world. Cheating does "just happen" all the time.

by Anonymous 1 week ago

Found the cheater!

by Anonymous 1 week ago

🎃 For the cheater

by TellKey7651 1 week ago

How, exactly? Cheating requires the cheater to go out of their way to cheat - you don't just trip over and land on someone else's genitals; it's an intentional thing.

by Anonymous 1 week ago

If you're ever in a situation where you allow cheating to "just happen" you are just a coward who doesn't know how to say "no". You always have a choice. No one forced you.

by Anonymous 1 week ago

Cheating does "just happen" all the time. Did you read beyond the header? Obviously it happens. You've misquoted a bit though; OP said it doesn't just "happen"(whereas you said "just happen"). They elaborated that it's obv not some unforeseen natural phenomena.

by TellKey7651 1 week ago

how does it just happen, whats the sequence of events?

by Anonymous 1 week ago

Cheating is normal behavior repressed by societal norms. Monogamous relationships are a social construct.

by Anonymous 1 week ago

Yeah but it's still a choice. You don't accidentally cheat

by Anonymous 1 week ago

What if you did it while blacked out

by Both_Welcome 1 week ago

It's Still your responsibility to get or not to get in situations like this...

by Anonymous 1 week ago

They're a social construct for a reason. There's often negative consequences to cheating. Poly relationships are ALSO a social construct and you can still cheat in those relationships too. What's your point?

by Anonymous 1 week ago

So are polyamorous relationships. All relationships are social constructs. Neither is more natural than the other.

by Fit-Pin 1 week ago